Having said that, beware and put your thick skin on! You may get dirty looks, whispering or even be cussed and yelled at. Again beware, because parents will tell their lawyers everything you say. Some bio parents will twist things you say or out and out lie. We've had minimal issues with this. The caseworker works closely with the parent or parents and usually has a good idea of their level of crazy. If you choose to interact with the parents, just keep the conversation short and very surface. Don't comment on their parenting skills or lack their of. And be careful when you leave anywhere. If you can, it's better to let the bio parent leave first, and then walk out to your vehicle. I've had foster parents try and confront me in the parking lot, which is nice when you have their child in tow. "Wave to mommy, Billy. She's the one in the cut off shorts, 8 months pregnant, yelling and waving the cigarette around" Ugh
But, in all fairness, most of these parents do love and miss their children. Love is not enough to care for a child, however. Their parenting skills suck, but they were most likely parented the same way. It still pisses me off, though.
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